Friday, July 27, 2012

Kristen Stewart is a dirty, dirty whore. Rupert Sanders is a man.

Can we take a minute to talk about the Kristen Stewart-Rupert Sanders-Robert Pattinson mess? It wasn't long after a national magazine broke the pictures of Stewart and Sanders behaving very inappropriately for a cohabiting woman and a married man that Stewart issued a public apology, seemingly aimed at Pattison, her long-term boyfriend. And almost in the same breath that the gossip rags were reporting on this apology, they were all commenting on the fact that Stewart's apology did not mention Sanders' wife and children. That sentiment has been repeated widely since then, that somehow Stewart's statement was insufficient because it lacked any recognition of the pain she caused to Sanders' family. Meanwhile, Sanders also issued a public statement, apologizing to his family. But I have yet to see anyone anywhere suggest that Sanders' statement was lacking as it made no mention of Pattinson, who may not be legally married to Stewart but does (did) live with her. No one has referred to him as a homewrecker.

I've complained about this kind of double standard before. The woman is painted as the homewrecking hussy who needs to be redeemed and the man, who really can't be expected to help himself, is the one who can ultimately redeem her.

To which I can only say a very exasperated, "COME ON!" They are both at fault here. They both cheated. One isn't more or less responsible based on sex. They should not be held to different standards. And, frankly, neither one of them should be expected to issue public apologies to the cuckolded partners, because, awkward! I'm quite confident that if I had been cheated on, the last thing in the world I would want would be a public statement published on every gossip website in the world from the person who slept with my partner saying how terribly sorry she was for causing me pain. Such a public apology would be wildly inappropriate. But, gosh darn it, if the gossip rags are going to judge Stewart for not following this hideously awful suggestion, they'd sure as heck better start judging Sanders, too.

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

You are just like any other woman out there, always bitching about double standards. Men are hard-wired to have as much sex as possible. Women are not. Men are of higher status as well (more money, better in politics and business, etc.) Men should be accepted as being sexual animals. You women know this too. So, it is up to you to say no! Kristen didn't. She had sex with a horny animal, probably because her "man" is just an emo freak with only 4" to spare. If women need satisfaction, why not buy a vibrating toy and go to town? "Kristen Stewart is a dirty, dirty whore! Rupert Sanders is a man."

S said...

You're either a troll or a loser who actually believes the nonsense you spew. Either way, you're not worth my time. Have a day.

BellsforStacy said...

But if there is a double standard ... shouldn't we bitch about it? I don't see your point at all. Even if he is just an animal who can't keep it in his pants, does that mean he's innocent? I don't get it.

Plus, if "everyone" knows that men are such hormonal animals, why don't these men do something about it instead of just playing weak victims? Doesn't seem that strong to me.

He's don't a terrible thing to his life and his kids. She's a bad actress.

I never bought her relationship with Pattinson. I always thought it was to sell tickets.

S said...

You know what gets me, Stacy? If men are of such higher status and so much better at stuff, why can't they control themselves?

If I had to guess, I'd guess Mr. Anonymous a) has heard the word "no" a lot, perhaps exclusively and b) knows he makes a whole lot less money than I do.

BellsforStacy said...

I agree, if men are so superior, they should be above such debauchery.

And I would say many men are.

He had more to lose in this scenario, and he hurt his children - publicly, which is reprehensible.

I dunno about Mr. Anon. I think he's just a troll. Oh well.

S said...

All right, idiot Twihards, take your misogynist meltdown somewhere else. No more comments calling for snipers or calling Kristen a dirty whore will be tolerated.

S said...

What did I say, Twihards? Leave your silly anti-Kristen comments elsewhere. They are not welcome here.

Anonymous said...

Rupert and Kristen are dirty whores eeww, gross. And they destroyed a family, a home, both should be fired. Hollywood is full of these crazy horny ...... who promote this poor behavior in media, marketing, and advertising eeww gross. I wonder why society is so confused. We no longer have respect or morals.

S said...

Honestly, what is the matter with some of you people?

Y'all have no idea the kind of awful, ridiculous comments I've been getting on this post.

 
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