Yoda says there is no try

But with all due respect to the Jedi master, there clearly is such a thing as trying. I'm stuck right now between deciding whether I try too hard or not nearly enough. I can't seem to get just the right amount of try. Sometimes I feel such guilt or self-doubt that I didn't try hard enough, I wind up going completely overboard in the other direction to make up for it.

Maybe if I keep trying, I will eventually hit my stride and find just the right amount of try for each and every situation.

Don't bother trying to understand this post.  I know what I'm talking about, but you don't have to.