I'm feeling peevish

so allow me to note one of my biggest, never before mentioned pet peeves. I really, really hate being asked, "What are your plans for [tonight] [this weekend] [holiday x]?"

Unless you're inquiring because you're wondering if I'm available to do something, just don't ask. It can't lead to a comfortable conversation. Either we will wind up talking about our separate plans, thus highlighting that we aren't really part of each other's social circles. Or I will have no plans to speak of, which is never something a single gal wants to admit. If I have to spend another evening or weekend or holiday alone, at least don't make me say it out loud.


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